when s/he finds you [plural]

when s/he finds us (you and me)

when you [plural] find her/him

when we (but not you) find her/him

when we (you and I) find her/him

when s/he finds us (but not you)

when we (but not you) go around her/him

when we (you and I) go around her/him

when s/he goes around you [plural]

when s/he goes around us (you and me)

when s/he goes around us (but not you)

when you [plural] go around her/him